Get Fit Challenge, Day #62: Let them BE.

Good Morning!!

Have you ever met someone you wanted to help but they wouldn’t allow you? They constantly complain about what it is they’re going through, however when a solution is created they run. It’s alllllmost as if they enjoy complaining.

While I believe that to be true in most instances, sometimes I have to take a step back and realize I cannot help everyone. Sometimes a complaint isn’t just word vomit; it is a cry for help. And if I cannot make the list of ones they want helping them, I must still be supportive until they get the proper help.

Welllll that day has come in the life of a friend of mine! It’s been about 4 years of me listening to her ‘complain’ and 3 weeks of me seeing her interaction with another person to realize if me being the middle man gets her help, then I’m glad I wasn’t selfish enough to stop communication when I thought she was just in a funky way. Now she is happier. Healthier. Smiling. Falling back in love with herself. THAT was our goal- not recognition of who helped her.

Pay Attention,

The Smitten Chef 🍷💃

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